Men may be reserved when it comes to their emotions, but this need not always be treated as a kind of psychological dysfunction.
#What men want women to know how to#
It is good to encourage men to learn how to express themselves more, but that being said, you should not treat their silence as an occasion for concern. Just because a man is a little quiet doesn’t mean there’s necessarily something wrong Differences are beautiful, if understood, respected, and loved. the belief that there is no substantive difference between the sexes) be prepared to be displeased with everything that follows. Moreover, if you are a proponent of “gender fluidity” (i.e. The idea is rather to reflect on our lives and see how we can help one another to be better understood and thus love on another with greater freedom and comprehension.ĭisclaimer: these apply in a general way– exceptions duly noted. For those people, I would invite you feel to comment below! The key here isn’t so much saying that all men are like this and all women are like that. Surely others have had different experiences and have different ways of viewing these things. Obviously this is a joint project, and can only be accomplished when both sexes mutually operate in a spirit of charity and generosity.Įach one of these points arise from my own, daily experience. women should advise women and men should advise men), I will take this opportunity (in as humble a manner as possible), to advise women (from my own personal experience) as to how they might better understand, and thus better serve, the opposite sex.
Recently I received a recommendation from a reader who said he appreciated my post about chivalry, but frankly was kind of sick of hearing about how only men (or so it seemed to him) are instructed how to understand and serve women, while it seems there is very little written about the responsibility of women to men.Īnd while I generally feel it is preferable each particular sex to instruct their own (i.e.